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How scientific is your religion? Can you change? Can you heal? »

by Jeff Bateman

I attended a seminar a few weeks ago on how the brain works, neuroscience.
The presenter Dr. Joe Dispenza spoke of his research into the brain and in particular his study of Spontaneous Remissions. This refers to cancer and other sicknesses, which were cured, when doctors thought there was no hope for them.

He identified 3 key factors in common with all the people he studied. On reading over these it struck me how close they are to our own teaching. Here are my notes. Can you see the similarity?

1) Spiritual Element – They believed in a Subjective Loving Intelligence, whom they would be able to make contact with and surrender their condition to. My will Your will – matching consciousness.

2) Attitude – My Emotions did this (this may also include preventing the body from repair) Thinking Feeling, Feeling Thinking Cycle. We become addicted to emotional states.

3) And most important! I HAVE TO RE-INVENT MYSELF through Thinking and Questioning. (May also be through study and counseling! – my addition)

The method he proposes for the above is a form of meditation, which athletes use “mental rehearsal” I also call creative visualisation or guided visualisation which I use with some clients. If we see the outcome we want, the body and circumstances can then move us towards that outcome.

It actually works in a very practical way. Joe explains about how our thoughts and feelings have an effect on our body chemistry, which changes us in a very physical way.

To kick here a comment off, I would say it definitely works, the so-called "mental rehearsal" especially concerning sportive activities. An example: My desire is to go hiking in Cornwall - starting at Newquay and ending in Plymouth. When doing the "rehearsal" in my mind (thinking the way through, meditating, planning, reading about it, setting goals, peparing, thinking again) it builds up an enormous healthy pulling power and provides tremendous confidence of reaching that final goal: Plymouth. Thanks for the description above!

Peter Schroder - 17 July 2009

thanks Jeff....this ties in with Dr David Hamiltons work...went to a couple of his book launches latest one 'Why Kindness is Good For You'...He has done a lot of research on how the mind influences the body ...and for example Meditation effects our very DNA by linking up with existing studies on the subject at Harvard 'The mind creates chemical changes in the brain and around the body. Hormone levels change, cells change, and genes express themselves, producing proteins all around the brain and body. In a 2005 paper, Eric Kandel, 2000 Nobel Prizewinner in Medicine, even wrote, ‘There’s no longer any doubt that psychotherapy can result in detectable changes in the brain.’ A new way of thinking about something activates different brain regions from before, encouraging blood flow in a new direction, leading to actual structural changes in the brain, often in the region of the prefrontal cortex' His latest book is very inspiring and presents the effects of an unconditionally giving nature on our health http://www.drdavidhamilton.com/

Pam - 4 March 2010

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Seeing Ourselves »

by Jeff Bateman

One of my favorite tools for personal growth is what I will call “the pointing finger technique”. You know the saying “when you point your finger you have 3 fingers pointing back at you”.
This is a technique that I apply to myself as often as I can as it can help me “see” myself.
When I have this seeing I am then in a better position to love others rather than judge them. This of course assumes I can love myself when I “see” what is inside me.

This is akin to the bible verse saying that we are all sinners and Jesus asking he who is without sin caste the first stone.

This does not mean that we need not correct wrong when we see it, but rather about how we feel about the wrong and if we can respond in an appropriate way to it. What is happening inside me? Sometimes we hear someone say something like “I was beside myself with rage”, a good indication that that someone may need to do a little looking inside. A little “seeing”.

Good one Jeff,one way to look at it is it is easier for people to accept our friendship when we are humble, acknowledging our own blunders. how I react to people around me when mistakes are made can be clearly felt by my words.

Jane Spicciani - 15 July 2009

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